Welcome to our site there are many things you can learn from us. We are basically here to teach you how to get laid and how to talk to girls. Although some of our methods don't apply to everyone, you will at least know how to react to certain situations if you come across them. The first thing I will tell you is that at first you might get discouraged by all this information. My advice to you is to take it slow and try to work your way up. Its really up to you how far you want to take this knowledge, \how much time you put into it and if you're willing to learn. I can't guarantee that you will be able to pick up any girl you want , but you will certainly have fun working your way up to it! Everyone here at WingManTheory.com is an experienced Wingman. We have all gone out in the field and tested the very theories we are presenting to you. Trust me, you won't be disappointed on the information you receive. But you have to sign-up to the site to read stories from our members, so join in and read them. Also by the way, the site is not all the way finished yet we still have many stories to put it and we are working on WingMan Academy, so bare with us.
Well good luck and I hope to talk to you soon...
The Basics
Everyone's heard of the word wingman but very few know what it really means. Most of you just think its a person that you know, that already knows a girl and you might get a date because he knows you. But you are very far from the truth. Let me share with you the actual meaning of a true WingMan
WINGMAN: is an individual whose intentions are to help a fellow wingman succeed in his catch. This person will do all in his power to better the odds of the other individual in his quest. A WingMan never tries to pick up for him self, always for the person next to him. A WingMan will also learn the trades from other experienced WingMan and will try to teach others that don't know yet. Lastly, a WingMan never reveals our trade secrets to our enemies (Woman)!!!!
WingMan Learning Process
Our actual teachings have a lot of field work involved, so you really have to commit if you want to learn something. It may take some of you longer then others to get the concept that were trying to teach you, but you have to really stay focused and remember that after you learn this you will have a better social life and you will be happier. The WingMan theory is actually just a extra curricular activity that your learning, to be able to go out and communicate with anyone. Its here to teach you how to be social with others and have fun in your life. Everyone has problems, and the only way to continue is to go out and have fun!! Learning this will raise your self confidence and keep you from questioning your self. Because if you start doing that you start depressing your self. So were here to keep from all that happening, The worst thing that can happen is, you going out and having fun.
WingMan Pick Your Girl
So let’s say you encounter a few girls and you want to know which one it right for you, you try out our theories and you still can't find the right match? Here is what you do...... You setup a scenario where you control the situation, this means you control what happens. For instance, let’s say you have 3 girls in one group and you’re trying to decide which one is your next victim. Do your research, take them all individually, but of course keep the spot the same so that you can compare fairly. (Remember to take them to your usual spot, somewhere you are comfortable and familiar with) Again, don’t forget to do your homework. Try to evaluate the situation prior to the events, figure out who you think is best for you even before you go out with them individually, always be prepared!
When I was in high school, my teacher taught me a lesson that I live by even now. If you have options the only way to find out what is best is to make 2 circles and overlap them, put the negatives out and the positives in. So by the time you're done doing this, you will have weighed the situation, when the good outweighs the bad, your choice is made. It’s easier said then done I know. But the reality is that you and I both know that you can’t be with all of them. So you have to pick. Our best advice here at WingManTheory.com if you are in this type of predicament is to go with the one that is giving you “The Look.” The look tells all! If a girl looks at you and tells you with her eyes that she wants you, it’s a done deal! Congratulations!
Wingman Initiating Conversation
The most important part of opening a conversation, is that you don't just want her to just say something to you, you actually want her to talk to you personally so you have her full attention. If she's not really into what you’re saying, then you’re definitely going to fail. A lot of guy's tell me they go to bars use some generic pickup lines and they attribute their success to these pickup lines. We wingmen know that it is not the pick up line that made the catch possible. We are confident that if we were to go back and ask most of those “Women” what the pickup line was that won them over they would have no recollection of the words used. WingMan Theory explains that the prep work done before these guys ever approached the girls raised their ratio of success dramatically prior to opening conversation. It is the preliminary evaluation that made the odds of a successful encounter much higher no matter what he said to the “Woman” he was trying to conquest. God knows we are not all made equally appealing to the female species, not all of us can be as good looking as Tom Cruise or Brad Pitt, some of us have to work for our percentages a little bit harder. There are a thousand ways to do this. A very successful and common approach is to "Subject Copy". If you just listen to what they are saying, pay attention to the details, you can go with the flow and ease your way in. This method works well in a typical, everyday situation, such as if you were at a bar scene for instance.